If you're reading this before a foreclosure has happened, there may still be alternatives:
Loan modification. Your lender may agree to modify the loan terms — lower interest rate, extended term, or principal reduction. Apply through your servicer's loss mitigation department. Lenders prefer modification over foreclosure because foreclosure costs them money.
Short sale. If you owe more than the home is worth, the lender may agree to let you sell for less than the mortgage balance. A short sale damages your credit less than a foreclosure and has shorter waiting periods for new mortgages (FHA: 3 years, conventional: 4 years with extenuating circumstances, 2 years otherwise).
Deed in lieu of foreclosure. You transfer ownership to the lender in exchange for being released from the mortgage. This avoids the public foreclosure process. Credit impact is similar to foreclosure, but some lenders view it more favorably because it shows you tried to cooperate.
Forbearance. Temporary reduction or suspension of payments during a hardship period. This buys time to recover financially without triggering foreclosure proceedings. Contact your servicer immediately if you're struggling — the earlier you act, the more options exist.
HUD-approved housing counselors. Free counseling is available through HUD-approved agencies. They can negotiate with your lender on your behalf and help you understand all available options. Find one at hud.gov or call 1-800-569-4287.